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Get ’emotionally healthy’ before dating Get as healthy as you can emotionally before you consider dating!!!Avoid the parade of dates in front of your children When the parent is ready to begin dating again (highly recommended to not do this for a year OR more after the divorce), they should not begin by bringing ‘dates’ to the home for the children to see a parade of men/women.Most people are doing the former, putting more effort into preparing their Facebook page for their wedding photos and their footballer husband or trophy wife so the world can see how great they did. Preparing for a wedding or preparing your heart and mind for being a great husband or wife.Let alone getting the invites ready for 400 guests… It’s not what you can GET from the marriage – it’s what you can GIVE!You may still have a reaction when you begin to ‘date’, but it should be lessened when you approach it this way.Are they emotionally/spiritually/financially sound? As you consider becoming serious about someone else, be sure that they are emotionally, spiritually and financially sound before proceeding. Ask God to guide you as you relate to the particular personality of your child (children).
Being a single parent is a challenge for anyone, and this ‘force’ at work is to be reckoned with when opening up your social world.Women – choose this day what you want to be; a Primark or Cartier woman. No I’m not talking about some dreadful date you went on, I’m talking about the marriage where there are two people in charge – it will fail.Don’t expect perfection but you are quite at liberty to wait till the men step up the their responsibilities and do what is necessary to become a great husband. It’s the same with a business, a school, or any team and a marriage is a team where the ‘two become ONE flesh’.And this is why God insists one person must be in charge (in all the right ways and not world’s ways). Well apart from the obvious – that he is physically stringer (in most cases:) someone has to lead. Does it mean he has a ticket to lord it over his woman, or a ticket to bully the woman to accept his stupid ideas – nope – hopefully when that happens she will resist until he sees sense.But ultimately he needs to become a man and step up to the plate to take on the extra responsibilities that leadership takes.