There's no rule that says a born again Christian can't find a perfect life partner in a bar or an alley, though I don't recommend the latter, but giving yourself a good network of Christian friends can help to funnel you towards exactly the type of date you're in search of.Don't turn your back on your old friends just because they aren't Christian or because they partake in activities that you don't want anything to do with, and don't go berserk trying to convert them.This might have had to do with your relationships, your demeanor, the way you treated others or yourself, or any number of other things.If it's not blatantly clear you felt you needed to convert to Christianity then you need to look inside yourself and determine the answer.Habitat for Humanity would be a great place to start, as you would be doing some good for the world and you'd be pretty much guaranteed to meet other people who hold their faith in high regards.
So grab a cup of coffee, get comfortable, take a look around and enjoy yourself.
Once it is clear what about you that you didn't like then you need to look at the you of yesterday and accept that person as part of who you are today, but in a different and more positive light.
Too many people are hopelessly entangled in their former selves and don't realize that the only way to break the cycle is to accept their former selves and move on; this is one of the main problems that occurs in relationships as it has a way of making people feel inadequate even when their partner doesn't.
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